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(no subject) Old habits die hard and are repetititve and destructive I feel like I'm going in reverse. One step…
6 hrs ago / @americancer +
A thought for the day... The Liberal MSM is over-eager to blame the Manchester terrorist attack on…
10 hrs ago / @rv1501 +
for now.

I always find my way back to this site when I am struggling the most. It’s a different kind of release and I am better able to understand myself when I am freely writing in this place. I feel like I can be more true to myself.


I found out recently that an “ex” of mine stalked me enough to find my tumblr and had been reading it while we were “dating” as well as after I had ended things. It felt half like an invasion of privacy and half like a sigh of relief that he actually read and understood my truth about the situation instead of whatever the fuck he made up in his head. I just don’t feel like that space can provide me any catharsis when I am working through personal and intense emotions anymore. So, here I am.


Lately I feel like I am losing my footing with adulthood. I’m fighting it every step of the way. Few things are bringing me joy— even when I am doing things I know I love doing. Last night in yoga, the instructor started class by having us lie on our backs and connect to our inner peace. It sounds cheesy and senseless, but lately, the world seems to be crumbling tragically everywhere you look. Our mantra for the day was something along the lines of… “Connecting to your inner peace makes the world a better place”. I cried for the first 5 minutes of class. I am hardly bringing peace to myself let alone the world. 


I understand that things change. I understand that I can’t just go through life reacting to the things that happen around me and that if I want something specifically, I have to ask, try, do, act, speak, resist. I am just having a bit of trouble getting myself to do any of those things? It almost feels like I am paralyzed with indecision and indifference. But I am still overwhelmingly melancholy. 


If I am mad at my best friend, I ignore it and try to let it go. 

If I am hurting over family problems, I shrug it off or even laugh about it. 

If I am worried about my health, I talk myself out of going to the doctor.

If I am mad at my brother, I just ignore him.

If I feel shitty about my body, I just get into bed as early as possible.

If I feel like no one wants me, I kiss whoever gives me attention.


I am not happy with the direction my life is going. 

I feel hurt by a lot of the people around me.

I hardly want to go home at the end of the day because I can feel the tension. I just don’t have the energy or willpower to have a mature conversation with someone— especially when I see no solution to the issues at hand. 


My apartment used to feel like a sanctuary.

My neighborhood friends used to be like a second family.

Everything just feels wrong now.

Everywhere just feels lonely.


I don’t really know what I can do about it which makes it even more difficult to work through. 


In the last month or so…


My brother went into rehab again. My parents have discussed moving to another state while he’s away. My best friend went from 0 to 100 real quick with a guy shes been seeing but somehow it’s my fault that we’re drifting apart. My closest friends (including someone I have been low-key in love with with for 3 years) moved out of my neighborhood.


The only good things are my yoga studio and a sprinkling of people I can rely on to hear my truth. Usually venting is enough, but this fog has yet to lift and I just keep making really bad choices while trying to get out of this head-space.


It feels good to write this all out. To see it in plain text. To read it back to myself when I need to understand myself.

I don’t know… it’s something, for now. 



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A thought for the day... And the winning couple for DWTS is… Drum-roll…
yesterday / @rv1501 +
Chris Cornell I vaguely remember when Kurt died. I remember scarcely better when Layne died. I remember…
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3 days ago / @jakerad +
Thoughts on Twin Lakes... Back to nature Back to where my soul belongs A return to my…
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4 days ago / @weesaul +
(no subject) Day one of a march to financial freedom. Staggering, mind-blowing, insane numbers kind of financial…
yesterday / @jakerad +

I walked down to the abandoned house, and sat on the concrete out front.
I smoked until my lungs hurt and stared at the cars passing by.
I debated jumping in front of one that was going well above the speed limit,
But decided not to because I was scared it would hurt.
A car pulled over and a woman inside asked me if I was all right,
I’m on break—I’m okay.
I texted my pseudo-boyfriend to tell him about the day;
He thought that I was joking.
He thinks that I’m okay.


2 days ago / @americancer +
And it works!
2 days ago / @rv1501 +
Fucking Fantastick! I have spent the better part of 3 months not texting or emailing John. I resisted the…
2 days ago / @c4fine13u22 +
New Job Day 1 First day of new job today. There’s a lot to learn. And on top of that…
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2 days ago / @divine +
(no subject) 'Out of suffering have emerged the strongest souls; the most massive characters are seared with…
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2 days ago / @mel674 +
Same Old Story

Not really sure where to begin but felt like I needed to get some things off my chest. I dated my ex for 6 years. In the beginning, I was really happy in the relationship. Then I felt like me and maybe even him too stayed in the relationship because the thought of not being with someone scared us. I left him because he was verbally abusive and disrespectful to me. There has been multiple times that I have blocked him and he found a way back into my life. The most recent time I had blocked him and he created a new Facebook profile so that he could message me. He even had a mutual friend call me to say how much he wanted to talk to me. I stupidly fell for it and we had been talking since then.


Over the course of about a year and a half I let him creep back into my emotions and life. He texted me every morning and we talked almost every day after work. It became habit to talk to him and I definitely started feeling attracted towards him again even though in the back of my mind I knew it would be a terrible idea. I finally decided last week to tell him that we needed to go our separate ways. I think he was beginning to realize himself and that’s why I felt safe enough to bring it up. And we will be moving in a few weeks so I will be able to completely block him and hopefully he will move on. At least this time if he sends me a message I hope I will have the will power to ignore it. I hate that I secretly want him to text me and tell me that he misses talking to me. It’s been so hard to keep my restraints from texting him. I can’t wait til I can just block him completely and then I won’t even have to think about it anymore. It’s so disappointing and frustrating that I’m back in square one. The good thing is now there is no where to go but forward.


I am definitely looking forward to this fresh start. It will be tough moving away from my friends but thankfully it won’t be too far. I’m hoping to start writing poetry again to get out some of my negative emotions. And once we are settled I definitely want to start talking to someone to help me focus on getting my self confidence back. It is going to be a hard journey ahead of me but I’m looking forward to it. I want to get myself to a healthy place, mentally, physically and emotionally. I want to be able to look back on my life and be happy with what I’ve accomplished. I wouldn’t say that I regret the time in my relationship because there are definitely a lot of good memories but it did help to teach me a lot about my future relationships. Life is  too short to be with someone who doesn’t make you happy. I realized you need to be with someone not only helps you grow as a person when you are happy but also supports you in your lows. I feel completely broken but I’m looking forward to getting put back together again. Stay tuned.


3 days ago / @bowlinchic867 +
(no subject) I “need” some new work clothes and I got lucky and got a 40% off coupon today for…
3 days ago / @chel2thec +
is this thing on? WOW! Hi all! I’ve been neglecting this a lot, which might explain why my mood…
5 days ago / @americancer +
Nostalgia And off in the haze of the horizon I can faintly see the farmland I grew up on…
5 days ago / @jakerad +
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5 days ago / @rv1501 +
A thought for the day...

The more I watch, the more I read, the more I listen,

the more jaded and disgusted I become with the MSM!


In my mind, the more I hear “an anonymous source”,  “a person

not authorized”, “a source close to___________ ", “a former

official”, “an official” … (Ad nauseum)… the more I less believe

that that source is being protected by the MSM to protect their

identity, but that these “nameless sources” are nothing more

than an excuse for blatant lies and fabrications!


So much “news” is exposed as false/fake now days that I believe

the MSM has totally lost all ability, creditability, and worst of all,

HONESTY in reporting the news!


Negativity? My god. how much more negative can the MSM get?

A Harvard poll reports that Trump immigration news is 96% negative!!


Everything Trump does is “NEWS” and CRITICIZED! 

OMG! Trump had TWO scoops of (vanilla) ice cream while everyone

else received only ONE!

HOLY BATSHIT! Trump had Diet Coke and everyone else had water!






Really, build a fucking bridge and get over it already!!!






5 days ago / @rv1501 +
119 I'm sore And I failed That's all
5 days ago / @newme +
(no subject) Still trying to be boss babe.
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5 days ago / @cas +
Single Mom Is it weird that I call myself a single mom? I have a boyfriend. He lives 2 hrs away. On…
6 days ago / @insanereid +
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checks and balances things have worked out in an interesting way at work. the program director that i…
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6 days ago / @morte +
(no subject)

I started a group of friends to learn ASL together.

It’s been so fun so far.

I’m sort of the leader of the group, so I’ve been the one to come up with what we’re learning, what we should focus on, etc.

It’s been really good for me as far as pushing me to learn and master signs.

Now if I could just learn and master the grammar. ASL grammar is super hard for me. But I’m getting there.

I wish I could start a new blog to keep up with my progress, and share with the group. I may end up doing that. It’d be interesting to keep track of new words and phrases and concepts learned and when I finally get the hang of certain concepts. Also good to remember what I’ve done and see how much progress I’ve made so I don’t get frustrated and give up. I could make video blogs in ASL with captions and text explaining concepts, photos of difficult-to-me hand shapes, etc. For French, text blogs, videos speaking, and translating paragraphs and songs would be awesome. Even singing my favorite songs in French or interpreting into ASL would be so cool. I think I might try to get this set up. It’d be neat to Future-Me.


ASL and French are such beautiful languages to me and I hope one day I’m completely fluent in both. ^_^


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6 days ago / @xRainbows4eveRx +
"should we do this again?" dude.… less than 2 hours until dinner. THE…
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6 days ago / @morte +
(no subject) On the way to recital (#2) (At the end of all recitals.) (and one of Audrey,…
6 days ago / @almost23 +

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